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Struggling to Talk Kink, Find Your People, or Navigate Dating Drama?

You’re not alone—whether you’re dipping your toes into kink, craving deeper connections, or lost in the dating chaos, I’m here to help you communicate your desires, build confidence, and create relationships that actually work.

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Craft a dating profile that stands out, clearly communicates your desires, and sets the stage for open, honest first-date conversations about kink.

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Differing desires don’t have to derail your relationship. Let’s navigate preferences, foster open communication, and create a shared path to deeper intimacy and alignment..

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Ready to dive deeper into BDSM but not sure where to start? Whether you're curious about roles, eager to refine your skills, or looking to confidently wield implements, I’ve got you covered with guidance, tips, and hands-on advice tailored to your journey.

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I began my own journey 10 years ago...

when I first moved to NYC. Challenged by a city where everyone seemed to easily embrace their uniqueness, I decided to dive in and explore my own kinks and desires.

My work as The Kink Consultant is based on the path I took to embrace my own sexuality. Understanding the source of my kinks and core desires was the first step in my self-acceptance journey. I’ve used this same approach to help other individuals and couples embrace their kinky side.

As a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach and Certified Sexologist, I aim to help you uncover a holistic and balanced relationship with intimacy. There is no one-size-fits-all approach and that’s why I’ve developed my consulting method. I want to help you discover your own path to fulfillment!

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From Overwhelmed to Empowered:

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Feeling stuck, unsure, or intimidated by your dating life, kink dynamics, or personal relationships? In a 1-on-1 session, we’ll cut through the noise and build a roadmap tailored to your desires and boundaries. You’ll leave feeling clear, confident, and ready to take action—whether that’s navigating tough conversations, stepping into your role with pride, or finding the connection you’ve been craving.

Let’s turn overwhelm into “Oh, I’ve got this."

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